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  1. McSweeney’s Internet Tendency: Ayn Randers.

    If Ayn Rand had an advice column, as envisioned by Megan Amram:

    Dear Ayn,

    I’m dating a man who I think I love, but I’m afraid he’s having an affair. He comes home late, he acts suspiciously, and he even has red lipstick on his collar. Should I confront him or just hope for the best?

    — County Affair
     
    Dear County,

    Red lipstick? Your husband is a communist. Divorce him and sell his clothes, children, and pens to make money to spend on cars, human slaves, and bigger pens. This will simultaneously stimulate the economy and punish the slaves for not having jobs. Slaves: what lazybones!

    Hope this helps,
    Ayn,

  2. Looking Forward. | The Equals Record
Ask me my age, and ninety-nine percent of the time, I’ll hesitate before answering. This isn’t because I’m embarrassed to admit the number (I’m twenty-six); rather, it’s because I actually have to think about it to make sure I’m getting it right. My age at heart and my age in reality are two completely different things. I may be twenty-six. I feel eighteen.
Love Shoko’s article. I’m the exact opposite. I need a beat to stop myself from saying, “I’m 43.”
The Equals Record, by the by, is a wonderful online quarterly for women if you’re tired of being bombarded by hot pink images and asinine articles about the 432 new sex positions to try on your boyfriend.  Looking Forward. | The Equals Record
Ask me my age, and ninety-nine percent of the time, I’ll hesitate before answering. This isn’t because I’m embarrassed to admit the number (I’m twenty-six); rather, it’s because I actually have to think about it to make sure I’m getting it right. My age at heart and my age in reality are two completely different things. I may be twenty-six. I feel eighteen.
Love Shoko’s article. I’m the exact opposite. I need a beat to stop myself from saying, “I’m 43.”
The Equals Record, by the by, is a wonderful online quarterly for women if you’re tired of being bombarded by hot pink images and asinine articles about the 432 new sex positions to try on your boyfriend. 
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    Looking Forward. | The Equals Record

    Ask me my age, and ninety-nine percent of the time, I’ll hesitate before answering. This isn’t because I’m embarrassed to admit the number (I’m twenty-six); rather, it’s because I actually have to think about it to make sure I’m getting it right. My age at heart and my age in reality are two completely different things. I may be twenty-six. I feel eighteen.

    Love Shoko’s article. I’m the exact opposite. I need a beat to stop myself from saying, “I’m 43.”

    The Equals Record, by the by, is a wonderful online quarterly for women if you’re tired of being bombarded by hot pink images and asinine articles about the 432 new sex positions to try on your boyfriend. 

  3. Befriending Your Creativity - DesignTAXI.com

    For years, I’ve been actively researching and experimenting with ways to make creating effortless, joyful and fun. 

    Here are three ways I use to create—writing, parenting, life—with a light heart and a saunter in my step. See what you think.

  4. You Are The Problem - DesignTAXI.com

    Recently, I came across a sign informing… 
    You are not stuck in traffic. 
    You are traffic 
    Get a bike. Break Free!
     

    I thought this sign was brilliant, not least because my bicycle is my preferred means of transport for journeys under 10km or so. But it is also a handy reminder that we humans tend to blame problems on others, and then expect others to solve those problems for us. Sadly, those others often have the same thoughts as us! They blame us and everyone else—but themselves—for the same problem. Meanwhile, everyone is waiting for someone else to solve the problem. But the truth is, if we are the problem, we also have a responsibility to solve the problem. 

  5. Everybody Thinks They're A Writer - Death By Advertising

    In all my years in the business, everyone has joked about the tempremental copywriter. But there’s a reason that the writers are so abrasive. Where the art professionals may get annoying requests for color changes and logo size increases, they essentially have a skill that is obviously beyond every account executive or marketing manager. An AE can ask for an art change, but most can never hope to go into Photoshop and make those changes themselves.

    But everyone can write. And thus is born the delusion of grandeur that makes everyone believe that because they can write, they are qualifed as a writer.

    Nothing could be further from the truth.

  6. Fear and minimalism « minima/maxima

    What follows below is a great post from mnmlist.com about fear, and how it affects our desire to hang onto material goods. This post instantly reminded me of my family, and some of the attitudes that I’ve inherited from them.

  7. Made Better in Japan - WSJ.com

    Love this article about the Japanese taking foreign imports and improving upon it. Nothing takes my breath away more than seeing or hearing about dignity in work. 

    In many cities around the world, hotels cater to so many foreigners that it matters most to deliver high-level, albeit generic international hospitality. But the Peninsula, with a client base that is now about 60 percent Japanese, was forced to adopt native customs. The formality of Japanese culture takes a subtle yet distinctive form at the hotel. Upon seeing a guest returning from a run, a doorman outside radios in so that just as he crosses the threshold, the runner is greeted with a bottle of water and a hand towel. “That’s omotenashi,” Thompson explains, “a kind of hospitality that involves anticipating what your guest needs.” Which is the simplest explanation of what a great hotel is supposed to do.

    Of course, one can argue that this is all really unnecessary and superfluous in one’s busy day, but if you’re in a position where you can’t find time in your day to enjoy a carefully brewed cup of coffee served by a barista who trained for a year before even being able to handle an expresso machine, then I think you need to reevaluate your life. 

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  9. The Gift of the Amateur - DesignTAXI.com
Wanting our inspirations to be fully formed from the start is like expecting a new-born baby to get up and walk… There is a myth about the creative soul that if you don’t feel inspired, you don’t have it. Leonardo da Vinci claimed he saw all his paintings in the humidity stains on his walls before ever lifting his brush. Herman Melville stared at Mount Greylock every day until one day it became that devilish cetacean Moby Dick. Children look up at the clouds and see houses, alligators, and dinosaurs rather than cumulus, nimbus, and cirrus. According to biologists, man can no longer be defined as different from other animals by virtue of speech or tool making. But we are absolutely unique in our dazzling ability to make metaphors. Creativity is the art of living metaphorically. We are all born creative, curious, and hungry to explore the world around and within us. For a child, creativity is expressed in play and play is the way he learns. Life is just one big erector set that is to be snapped together and pulled apart in a thousand different ways. But this flexibility often fades with the passage of time. We put away our toys and acquire jobs, kids, and mortgages. We become ‘specialists’ and keeping up with our specialty is supposed to take up all our spare time. But our eyes still seek out beauty and our hands itch to make something wonderful out of the wonders we see. We live in a culture that doesn’t encourage us to be creative unless it looks like we are going to strike it big with a commercial hit. Creativity, like so much else in our world, has been co-opted into consumerism; and its worth, calculated by how much money it generates. It is only recently that the word ‘amateur’ became a dirty one. Until the 1980’s, just about every educated person—no matter what his or her profession—played an instrument, or painted, or wrote for pleasure. The aim of these hobbies wasn’t necessarily to become the next Beethoven, but to deepen the sensibilities of the individual doing them. The Victorian art critic John Ruskin, when asked why he was teaching factory workers to draw, said, “I’m not teaching them to draw, I’m teaching them to see.” I would venture to say that enhanced seeing and feeling are the real reasons to create, whether it is be a garden, a haiku, or a brand new thought. The word ‘amateur’—from the Latin ‘amator’ or lover—means to create for the sheer love of it. I propose that we bring back amateurism with a vengeance. Weekend painters, closet writers, doctors who are poets, dancers who are CPAs! Some of our greatest scientists, thinkers, and artists have been amateurs. Charles Darwin was an amateur naturalist; Johannes Kepler supported his astronomical investigations by being a court astrologer; Wallace Stevens had a day job in a bank; and the idea of being a professional poet never crossed Emily Dickinson’s mind. The creative spirit within us is a trickster that adores turning the world upside down. It is a tempest in our comfortable little teapot. It is our personal daemon determined to imprint our unique voice upon the planet, if only we will let it. It trips us and tickles us until we join in its playfulness. If creativity is any one thing—it is play, play, play. If we don’t express our imagination, it festers, it frustrates, it turns us into passive onlookers, when we were meant to be tooting our horn in the universal choir. Our creativity is a gift. In many indigenous cultures, a gift cannot be kept to one’s self but it must be passed on to others, or it will turn on its owner. My theory is a little less ominous. I think the more creative we are, the more we want to share it. We give this gift by passing on the energy of imagination, play, and never-ending curiosity. Creativity is seriously infectious. Nothing can stop its rampant spread except embarrassment, self-doubt, and a premature insistence on perfection. Wanting our inspirations to be fully formed from the start is like expecting a new-born baby to get up and walk. There is a myth about the creative soul that if you don’t feel inspired, you don’t have it. I’ve been a writer for 30 years and if I had to depend on my inspiration every time I stared at a blank piece of paper, that piece of paper would stay forever blank. I’ve experienced every emotion imaginable when I write—from abject terror to feeling absolutely nothing—and through it all like a recalcitrant mule, I have plodded on. Who can know from book to book, or play to play, if they will be a success? That’s not the point of creation anyways; the point is to take the journey. I trust my hands on the keyboard a certain amount of time per day as more reliable than the breath of the muse, but the funny thing is that the key-punching action often leads the muse back to me. We never know what we can do in the realm of the imagination until we try or, in the words of Samuel Beckett: “fail, then fail better.” 

    The Gift of the Amateur - DesignTAXI.com

    Wanting our inspirations to be fully formed from the start is like expecting a new-born baby to get up and walk… There is a myth about the creative soul that if you don’t feel inspired, you don’t have it. 


    Leonardo da Vinci claimed he saw all his paintings in the humidity stains on his walls before ever lifting his brush. Herman Melville stared at Mount Greylock every day until one day it became that devilish cetacean Moby Dick. Children look up at the clouds and see houses, alligators, and dinosaurs rather than cumulus, nimbus, and cirrus. 

    According to biologists, man can no longer be defined as different from other animals by virtue of speech or tool making. But we are absolutely unique in our dazzling ability to make metaphors. Creativity is the art of living metaphorically. 

    We are all born creative, curious, and hungry to explore the world around and within us. For a child, creativity is expressed in play and play is the way he learns. Life is just one big erector set that is to be snapped together and pulled apart in a thousand different ways. But this flexibility often fades with the passage of time. 

    We put away our toys and acquire jobs, kids, and mortgages. We become ‘specialists’ and keeping up with our specialty is supposed to take up all our spare time. But our eyes still seek out beauty and our hands itch to make something wonderful out of the wonders we see. 

    We live in a culture that doesn’t encourage us to be creative unless it looks like we are going to strike it big with a commercial hit. Creativity, like so much else in our world, has been co-opted into consumerism; and its worth, calculated by how much money it generates. 

    It is only recently that the word ‘amateur’ became a dirty one. 

    Until the 1980’s, just about every educated person—no matter what his or her profession—played an instrument, or painted, or wrote for pleasure. The aim of these hobbies wasn’t necessarily to become the next Beethoven, but to deepen the sensibilities of the individual doing them. 

    The Victorian art critic John Ruskin, when asked why he was teaching factory workers to draw, said, “I’m not teaching them to draw, I’m teaching them to see.” 

    I would venture to say that enhanced seeing and feeling are the real reasons to create, whether it is be a garden, a haiku, or a brand new thought. 

    The word ‘amateur’—from the Latin ‘amator’ or lover—means to create for the sheer love of it. 

    I propose that we bring back amateurism with a vengeance. Weekend painters, closet writers, doctors who are poets, dancers who are CPAs! Some of our greatest scientists, thinkers, and artists have been amateurs. 

    Charles Darwin was an amateur naturalist; Johannes Kepler supported his astronomical investigations by being a court astrologer; Wallace Stevens had a day job in a bank; and the idea of being a professional poet never crossed Emily Dickinson’s mind. 

    The creative spirit within us is a trickster that adores turning the world upside down. It is a tempest in our comfortable little teapot. It is our personal daemon determined to imprint our unique voice upon the planet, if only we will let it. It trips us and tickles us until we join in its playfulness. 

    If creativity is any one thing—it is play, play, play. 

    If we don’t express our imagination, it festers, it frustrates, it turns us into passive onlookers, when we were meant to be tooting our horn in the universal choir. 

    Our creativity is a gift. In many indigenous cultures, a gift cannot be kept to one’s self but it must be passed on to others, or it will turn on its owner. 

    My theory is a little less ominous. I think the more creative we are, the more we want to share it. We give this gift by passing on the energy of imagination, play, and never-ending curiosity. 

    Creativity is seriously infectious. Nothing can stop its rampant spread except embarrassment, self-doubt, and a premature insistence on perfection. Wanting our inspirations to be fully formed from the start is like expecting a new-born baby to get up and walk. 

    There is a myth about the creative soul that if you don’t feel inspired, you don’t have it. 

    I’ve been a writer for 30 years and if I had to depend on my inspiration every time I stared at a blank piece of paper, that piece of paper would stay forever blank. 

    I’ve experienced every emotion imaginable when I write—from abject terror to feeling absolutely nothing—and through it all like a recalcitrant mule, I have plodded on. 

    Who can know from book to book, or play to play, if they will be a success? That’s not the point of creation anyways; the point is to take the journey. I trust my hands on the keyboard a certain amount of time per day as more reliable than the breath of the muse, but the funny thing is that the key-punching action often leads the muse back to me. 

    We never know what we can do in the realm of the imagination until we try or, in the words of Samuel Beckett: “fail, then fail better.” 
  10. The Cast of PBS’s “Downton Abbey” in New York : The New Yorker

    Dockery chimed in. “I was in Devon last week, in this little village called Budleigh, and someone came over and told me the village church had changed the time of the evensong service so they could all go home and watch ‘Downton’ afterward,” she said.

    Froggatt added that she is getting married next year. “I e-mailed with the vicar about arrangements,” she said. “He wrote, ‘If you could possibly arrange for me and my wife to visit the set of “Downton,” you will go straight to Heaven.’ ”

    Hahaha

  11. Anything Is Possible | articles
When was the last time your work moved someone? Troy Scarlott, Co-Creative Lead at Ignited, reflects on how his 1957 Porsche 356 Speedster brought him back to the purest purpose of advertising. 

    Anything Is Possible | articles

    When was the last time your work moved someone? Troy Scarlott, Co-Creative Lead at Ignited, reflects on how his 1957 Porsche 356 Speedster brought him back to the purest purpose of advertising. 

  12. "Rules are what the artist breaks; the memorable never emerged from a formula."

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    Bill Bernbach

    Don’t Create An Ad, Create A World… | articles

    Great article on why Harry Potter is so captivating and the heart of big ideas.